This list serves as a 'Guide & Suggestions List" to help you prepare for your big day. It’s adaptable to fit your unique needs for a grand ceremony. Special thanks to the wonderful team at My Wedding Guide for allowing me to share this valuable information on my website.
12 Months Prior to Your Big Day: Plant the Seed Stage
- Envision Your Wedding: Decide on the size and theme of your wedding.
- Select Dates & Venues: Consider potential dates, ceremony locations, and reception venues (reserve if needed).
- Budget Planning: Estimate your overall budget.
- Meet Your Celebrant: Schedule a meet and greet to book your marriage celebrant (hopefully, that’s me!).
- Wedding Party: Think about who you want in your wedding party and confirm with them.
- Symbolize Your Love: Consider wedding rings or alternative symbols like tattoos, planting a tree, or gifting crystals.
- Initial Guest List: Create a rough guest list.
- Engagement Party: Plan an engagement party if desired.
- Set a Date: Finalize your wedding date.
- Dress Hunting: Start browsing for your wedding dress.
9–12 Months Before: Set Your Intention Stage
- Capture the Day: Decide if you want a professional photographer, videographer, or DJ. Consider using disposable cameras for guests to take photos.
- Reassess Your Guest List: Review and finalize your guest list.
- Food & Catering: Think about your catering needs and start sourcing options.
- Decor & Centerpieces: Organize centerpieces, decor, chair dressings, and table linens to match your theme.
- Flowers: Determine if you need a florist and discuss your requirements. Alternatively, consider organic options from nature.
- Wedding Cake: Decide on a cake design, find a cake maker, and place your order.
- Rental Needs: If you need to hire tables, chairs, or other items, make inquiries and reserve them.
- Gift List: Create a list of items you’d like for your new life together, if desired.
- Honeymoon Planning: Think about your honeymoon destination and plan accordingly.
6–9 Months Before: Making Your Seeds Grow Stage
- Menu Planning: Start finalizing your menu.
- Musician Confirmation: Touch base with musicians to confirm your booking and date.
- Transportation: Reserve your transportation for the day.
- Invitations & Stationery: Design your invitations and stationery; print them once you're satisfied.
- Thank You Gifts: Source and order thank-you gifts for attendees, plus a few extras.
- Mother's Outfits: Consider outfits for the mothers of the bride and groom.
- Groom's Attire: Plan outfits for the groom and groomsmen, schedule fittings, and book for the big day.
3–6 Months Before: Not Long to Go Now
- Finalize Guest List: Review and finalize your guest list.
- Select Ceremony Reader: Choose someone to read during your ceremony.
- Confirm Floral Order: Call your florist to confirm your order for the big day.
- Tailor Confirmation: Contact the tailor for the men's attire to confirm the booking.
- Bride’s Hair Appointment: Make an appointment with your hairdresser to discuss your hairstyle.
2 Months Before:
- Send Invitations: Time to send out your invitations.
- Write Vows: Compose your wedding vows.
- Finalize Menus: Confirm the reception menus.
- Purchase Gifts: Buy gifts for parents and attendants.
- Beauty Appointments: Book appointments for nails and makeup.
- Final Dress Fitting: Schedule your final dress fitting.
1 Month Before:
- Apply for Marriage License: Complete your application here.
- Rehearsal Dinner: Organize your rehearsal dinner.
- Meet Photographer: Schedule a meeting with your photographer if you have one.
2 Weeks Before:
- Attendants' Party: Host a party for your attendants if desired.
- Draft Speeches: Write your speeches.
- Finalize Reception: Confirm all reception details.
- Follow Up with Guests: Call any guests who haven't replied.
- Bride's Appointments: Meet with your makeup artist and hairdresser.
- Song Lists: Deliver song lists to musicians or playlists to the DJ.
- Honeymoon Confirmation: Confirm your honeymoon reservations.
1 Week Beforehand:
- Wedding Rehearsal: Gather your wedding party for the rehearsal.
- Seating Plan: Finalize your guest seating plan.
- Procession Order: Determine the order for the procession.
- Groomsmen Attire: Pick up the groomsmen's attire.
- Marriage License: Deliver your marriage license to the officiant.
- Caterer Confirmation: Confirm final numbers with your caterer.
- Limousine Details: Confirm details with the limousine company if applicable.
- Place Cards: Create a seating arrangement and write out place cards.
- Wedding Favors: Choose someone to hand out the wedding favors.
- Return Rentals: Designate someone to return rented items after the wedding.
- Honeymoon Packing: Pack for your honeymoon.
On Your Special Day: Today’s the Day!
- Wedding Bands: Hand the wedding bands to the best man.
- Bride's Prep: Get your hair and makeup done.
- Stay Relaxed: Go with the flow and relax.
- Enjoy: Breathe and enjoy your special day!